Tiny rituals that reconnect you to the world.
Sometimes healing doesn’t come from therapy, meds, or insight. Sometimes it comes from walking the same sidewalk every morning. Feeding your cat. Watching a seed sprout. Small acts of care that ask almost nothing of you—but offer everything in return.
This chapter is about those quiet things.
🐾 Animals
Whether it’s a dog, a goldfish, or a squirrel you say hi to on the fire escape—animals can bring structure, connection, and comfort.
Why they help:
They don’t care about your diagnosis
They offer unconditional presence
Caring for them gives you a reason to get up
Their routines help regulate yours
You don’t need to adopt a pet to benefit:
Visit a cat café or shelter
Watch wildlife outside your window
Pet-sit for a friend
Follow animal TikToks or livestreams
If you do have a pet, it’s okay to lean on them emotionally. Just remember—they rely on you too. If you’re struggling to care for them, ask for help. That doesn’t make you a bad person.
🌱 Plants
Plants don’t talk. They don’t expect. They don’t judge. But they do respond.
Why they help:
They teach you to nurture something gently
They give you something to watch grow
Watering can be a grounding ritual
Some improve air quality and natural light response
You don’t have to be a plant expert:
Try a pothos, snake plant, or spider plant—very low-maintenance
Name your plants. Talk to them.
Watering = a moment of mindfulness
If you don’t have light or energy for real plants, even fake ones, drawings, or photos of plants can bring some of the same calm.
🚶♀️ Walking
Walking is movement without pressure. It doesn’t have to be for exercise or productivity—it can be a ritual, a loop, a way of saying “I’m still here.”
Why it helps:
Regulates breath and body tension
Gives your mind something to follow
Reconnects you to your surroundings
Works during dissociation, restlessness, or sadness
If you can’t go far, that’s okay:
Walk up and down the hallway
Walk around your block
Walk to a place that feels familiar
Walk with music or in silence
Walk the same path every day—make it sacred
Some people walk during flashbacks. Some people walk through depression. Some people walk just to feel time pass. All of it counts.
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